The way to win with a Narcissist

This one will be short and not very sweet. The game with a Narcissist is rigged. We have NO Emotional LEVERAGE over narcissists. They do not care. They have leverage over the situation, because we care and have empathy. There is NOTHING you can do to gain emotional...

I Hate the Rhetoric on Self Love

Most people don’t know how to build up their own self worth. I’ve had my own battles with self love, self worth, self-esteem and self care. I certainly didn’t resent all the words associated with it. When I was healing, all I knew is that I wanted to trust myself....

How Does Emotional Abuse Feel?

When emotional abuse is taking place, it may be obvious to those on the outside, or it may be very difficult to detect because everything seems “normal”. It may even have been going on for a while, but the attitudes and indications of those involved have become normal...

Conversations with a Narcissist are Exhausting

Conversations with a narcissist are exhausting, dizzying, nerve-racking, and make you feel like you’re going insane. Often people will question their own reality and their sanity. The circular conversations leave you feeling worse off than if you had never had them in...

How I Work With Clients in Emotional Abuse

I wanted to explain what working with me looks like – especially when you are dealing with Emotional or Narcissistic Abuse. For a long time I focused my business on only Millennial Life Crisis, so I would help women who reached a crossroads in their life. They may...

Don’t paint red flags white.

Don’t paint red flags white. Those of us with anxiety or negative self talk may blame ourselves when things in our life are complicated or not going the way we want them to. It is easier for us to look inward and blame ourselves. Seeing the truth of the matter could...

What is a Narcissistic Projection?

Narcissists hold onto a lot of resentment and hatred toward those who stand up for themselves and use healthy boundaries. A narcissist feels entitled to say and do what they wish, and entitled and disrespect and hurt anyone they see as a threat. They hate anyone who...

A Narcissist Thinks Their Feelings are Fact

Narcissists think their feelings are facts. They like to think their feelings are facts – so whatever they feel anger, rage or whatever triggered them, they believe it is justified. So when they spread lies about you, often even to you, they convince themselves they...