Red Flags

The red flags you see in the beginning of a relationship typically become the reasons a relationships fails later on. He doesn’t respond to your messages? He doesn’t care. He doesn’t respond with definitive plans? Planning with you is not a priority....

Lundy Bancroft’s ’13 Signs of Change’

Many of my clients desperately want to know if (and how) their emotionally abusive partner can change. This is very normal. You are likely an empathetic person who would make changes if you were hurting someone you care about. This is not true for manipulative people....

Interview with a Love Witch

Interview with Sensual Coach Gwen Walsh. Gwen is a Tarot Reader, Intuitive and Sensual Coach. Working with Gwen throughout my Emotionally Abusive and Toxic relationship helped me experience my life as a viewer and step out of my own way – offering a new...

How to Use Canned Responses as a Boundary

Using Canned Responses is often the first step in creating boundaries. Boundaries allow you to draw a line between you and another person – and you and yourself. However, setting boundaries in an abusive relationship is almost impossible. You’ll find...